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Mar 14, 20227 min read
The Big 3
So you wanna be a better counselor?: Part 5 Let’s get down to brass tacks. You’ve got the preconditions of a well defined field, clear...


Feb 14, 20222 min read
“I have to be able to do this job when I’m grieving.”
The other day I was talking with a friend about all the work it takes to be a master therapist, from reviewing tape to monitoring...


Jan 17, 20224 min read
The problems with gurus: We mistake status for skill.
So you wanna be a better counselor?: Part 4 We’ve spent a lot of time talking about how a well defined field, feedback, and time, are the...


Dec 13, 20212 min read
Time: Preconditions and principles for obtaining mastery
So you wanna be a better counselor?: Part 3 Precondition #2: Time Mastery isn’t for everyone. It takes time. A lot of time. How much...

Dec 6, 20212 min read
Clear, quick feedback: Preconditions and principles for obtaining mastery
Part 2: Principle #1: High quality feedback How do we know if a field is defined or undefined? You can tell by asking the question, “am I...

Nov 29, 20213 min read
A well defined field: Preconditions and principles for obtaining mastery
Part 1 For the past 9 years I’ve studied what it takes to become a master therapist, and in doing so I’ve discovered a set of universal...
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