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Jan 172 min read
What I'm reading: What if billionaires aren't the problem?
Why billionaires aren't the root of our problems.
May 31, 20242 min read
What I'm reading: RIP Sue Johnson
The Gottmans pay tribute to Sue Johnson.
May 17, 20241 min read
What I'm reading. The problem with David Goggins.
A few thoughts on why some people probably can't be helped in therapy.
May 10, 20241 min read
What I'm reading. AI makes it too easy to make porn.
The catastrophic downside of AI art.


May 3, 20241 min read
What I'm listening to. Personalized AI Music (for mother's day).
Wanna make free AI music for mom this mother's day?
Apr 5, 20241 min read
What I'm reading: The Cost of Love is Grief
A poem on loss and grief.
Mar 22, 20242 min read
What I'm reading: Why we default to making more money
A few thoughts on meaning and money.
Mar 8, 20243 min read
What I'm reading: What's important about our work.
About two weeks ago, I was at a hotel in London with my girlfriend. We had just had dinner with a well-known journalist friend at one of...
Mar 1, 20243 min read
What I'm reading: Why clients chose life coaches over therapists.
What therapists can learn from life coaches.
Feb 23, 20241 min read
What I'm reading: What happens to us when we become old and boring?
On getting old and becoming boring.
Feb 9, 20241 min read
What I'm reading: On having an online presence
How to know you've got something which resonates.
Jan 26, 20241 min read
What I'm reading: On the FI/RE movement
A few thoughts on the Financial Independence movement.
Nov 24, 20232 min read
What I'm Reading : We haven't found aliens because of video games
A few thoughts on supernormal stimuli and why we haven't found aliens.
Oct 12, 20232 min read
Notes: When therapy does more harm than good.
Sometimes therapy causes more harm than good.


Sep 15, 20232 min read
What I'm Reading: Grad school won't make you a better counselor.
... formal training has little to no impact on actually improving client outcomes. Let me briefly point out 4 relevant studies that has...
Mar 23, 20231 min read
What I'm Reading: On the pain of greatness
"For 210 seconds, she will be suspended in the liminal zone between this life and the next. In a place where the water’s weight will wrap...


Feb 16, 20232 min read
What I'm Reading: On being optimistic about the future
"Skateboarder Tony Hawk landed a 900 – two and a half spins – at the 1999 X Games. It was the biggest achievement the sport had ever...
Jul 7, 20221 min read
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Kids. No matter how certain something seems, we just can't predict the future Question:** Do the great tech giant franchises of our day,...
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Choose your status game wisely. This is why you have to choose your status game wisely. Because whatever status game you choose in life...
Jun 23, 20221 min read
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What bad therapy looks like. The session, an accelerated train of tears and snot, zoomed by in 45 quick minutes. At which point my...
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